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I was intelligent- I could find the magic answer, the secret that would finally get him sober so we could carry on and have the great life I knew was possible.  With each new find I always had such hope. 

 

This would finally be the answer.  I was devastated and depressed with each failed attempt. My life was on hold as I spent so much time focusing on getting him sober.

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I  kept looking for answers.  There was the solution out there, I just needed to find it.
Two Dried Leaves

Over 26 years of marriage, I have read hundreds of articles and books on addiction.  Spoken to too many treatment centers and top specialists in the field of addiction.  I've spent years and thousands of dollars attending therapy and counselling sessions.  I've heard so many stories of the pain and heartache brought on by addiction. I was dealing with an addicted spouse.

 

Witnessed first hand the destruction  and chaos it caused to my family and the families of others I have spoken with also on this journey seeking desperately for answers and help.  Through my years of seeking answers I have created a pathway that worked for me and will work for you. 

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Pam Pettie is a survivor of an alcoholic spouse and now offers help to those living with an alcoholic, offering alcoholic spouse help and addicted spouse help.

A Survivor’s Guide is workbook focusing on the spouse’s well-being and not the addict in one's life

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